Chapter 16: Surveying The Ancient Ruins

1. What does Ezekiel 18 teach about the relationship between the father's sins and the children?

Here is the Scripture (my comments are below):

Ezekiel 18 (The Message Bible)

Judged According to the Way You Live

^1-2 God's Message to me: "What do you people mean by going around the country repeating the saying, The parents ate green apples, The children got the stomachache?

^3-4 "As sure as I'm the living God, you're not going to repeat this saying in Israel any longer. Every soul—man, woman, child—belongs to me, parent and child alike. You die for your own sin, not another's.

^5-9 "Imagine a person who lives well, treating others fairly, keeping good relationships—
doesn't eat at the pagan shrines,
doesn't worship the idols so popular in Israel,
doesn't seduce a neighbor's spouse,
doesn't indulge in casual sex,
doesn't bully anyone,
doesn't pile up bad debts,
doesn't steal,
doesn't refuse food to the hungry,
doesn't refuse clothing to the ill-clad,
doesn't exploit the poor,
doesn't live by impulse and greed,
doesn't treat one person better than another,
But lives by my statutes and faithfully
honors and obeys my laws.
This person who lives upright and well
shall live a full and true life.
Decree of God, the Master.

^10-13 "But if this person has a child who turns violent and murders and goes off and does any of these things, even though the parent has done none of them—
eats at the pagan shrines,
seduces his neighbor's spouse,
bullies the weak,
steals,
piles up bad debts,
admires idols,
commits outrageous obscenities,
exploits the poor
"—do you think this person, the child, will live? Not a chance! Because he's done all these vile things, he'll die. And his death will be his own fault.

^14-17 "Now look: Suppose that this child has a child who sees all the sins done by his parent. The child sees them, but doesn't follow in the parent's footsteps—
doesn't eat at the pagan shrines,
doesn't worship the popular idols of Israel,
doesn't seduce his neighbor's spouse,
doesn't bully anyone,
doesn't refuse to loan money,
doesn't steal,
doesn't refuse food to the hungry,
doesn't refuse to give clothes to the ill-clad,
doesn't live by impulse and greed,
doesn't exploit the poor.
He does what I say;
he performs my laws and lives by my statutes.

^17-18 "This person will not die for the sins of the parent; he will live truly and well. But the parent will die for what the parent did, for the sins of—
oppressing the weak,
robbing brothers and sisters,
doing what is dead wrong in the community.

^19-20 "Do you need to ask, 'So why does the child not share the guilt of the parent?'

"Isn't it plain? It's because the child did what is fair and right. Since the child was careful to do what is lawful and right, the child will live truly and well. The soul that sins is the soul that dies. The child does not share the guilt of the parent, nor the parent the guilt of the child. If you live upright and well, you get the credit; if you live a wicked life, you're guilty as charged.

^21-23 "But a wicked person who turns his back on that life of sin and keeps all my statutes, living a just and righteous life, he'll live, really live. He won't die. I won't keep a list of all the things he did wrong. He will live. Do you think I take any pleasure in the death of wicked men and women? Isn't it my pleasure that they turn around, no longer living wrong but living right—really living?

²⁴ "The same thing goes for a good person who turns his back on an upright life and starts sinning, plunging into the same vile obscenities that the wicked person practices. Will this person live? I don't keep a list of all the things this person did right, like money in the bank he can draw on. Because of his defection, because he accumulates sin, he'll die.

^25-28 "Do I hear you saying, 'That's not fair! God's not fair!'?

"Listen, Israel. I'm not fair? You're the ones who aren't fair! If a good person turns away from his good life and takes up sinning, he'll die for it. He'll die for his own sin. Likewise, if a bad person turns away from his bad life and starts living a good life, a fair life, he will save his life. Because he faces up to all the wrongs he's committed and puts them behind him, he will live, really live. He won't die.

²⁹ "And yet Israel keeps on whining, 'That's not fair! God's not fair.'

"I'm not fair, Israel? You're the ones who aren't fair.

^30-32 "The upshot is this, Israel: I'll judge each of you according to the way you live. So turn around! Turn your backs on your rebellious living so that sin won't drag you down. Clean house. No more rebellions, please. Get a new heart! Get a new spirit! Why would you choose to die, Israel? I take no pleasure in anyone's death. Decree of God, the Master.

"Make a clean break! Live!"

Wow! This passage teaches us a lot, but here are a few key points I see:

1. The sins of one Person or generation do not make another person or generation suffer punishment.
2. The person who sins, is the person who pays.
3. However, there is always forgiveness, if we who have sinned turn away from our sins, get a clean heart, and make good decisions...we will LIVE!
   

2. If Christians do not literally die for our sins, what kinds of deaths can our sins bring about?

Since Jesus paid the price for our sins, we do not die physically because of our sins, but we still have to deal with natural consequences that sin brings. Sometimes, it may be a relationship that is beaten up and brought to the point of no return, or it could be something within us that takes the fall, such as self-respect.


3. What four steps did the son in Ezekiel 18 take to be free of parental sin?

1. He saw the sins of his father
2. He decided not to practice the same habits
3. He got rid of his own offenses
4. He pursued a new heart and new spirit


4. How can we forsake parental sin without dishonoring the parent?

We must look back honestly, believing the truth over the lies of our enemy, and we have to discern the difference between rebuilding and preserving, and we must accept God's appointment as a reconstruction worker. (See pg 102 & 103 of Breaking Free)


5. What is the difference between rebuilding the ruins and preserving the ruins?

Instead of viewing and inspecting the ruins and them working with God to rebuild, preserving is when we just keep revisiting the ruins...we never get over it or move on.